Recommending "Book of Shadows"

 

I loved it.

 

It's a memoir of Phyllis Curott's spiritual journey and initiation as a High Priestess in the Wiccan community.  Originally published in 1999, we meet Phyllis as a young attorney in Manhattan who follows a friend into a mysterious shop and unwittingly finds herself being invited into a women's circle or witches' coven. Phyllis is very skeptical at first, looking to historical texts to corroborate what she's learning in the circle, weaving in history and myth for the reader. She describes what happens in many of the gatherings, how she and her fellow members are affected by it, and what changes happen in her life as a result.

Meanwhile she's also working overtime as an associate in a firm specializing in entertainment law, which in the 90's is rife with sexism. I started my music business career in the late 90's in Austin and Manhattan, so I found this aspect of the book interesting and the sexist condescension, threats & roadblocks all too familiar. Her male-dominated workplace is a stark contrast to her experiences of growth, support and empowerment in her circle. I loved reading how she had to learn to navigate both worlds, and eventually integrate these seemingly separate parts of herself. 

Witchcraft has been around for longer than we know but it seems to be experiencing another surge in popularity. I'm thinking of all the witchy things I see on Instagram:  a young girl showing off a T-shirt that says WITCH on it, someone selling a bunch of pretty crystals, or a carefully designed photo spread featuring a deck of divination cards. Is everyone with a crystal or tarot deck investigating the deeper spiritual meaning behind it all?  Maybe! Beyond the surface level trend there's a current of curiosity, and I suspect a lot of women have a yearning to go deeper.  

Phyllis' memoir is a fantastic exploration of initiation and female empowerment. True female empowerment is still elusive in the critical mass. I've met a few empowered female individuals in person, but how many do we have in popular culture?  In our culture, female empowerment is still met with mockery or mistrust, and is often achieved by developing masculine traits and subverting our more feminine energies. Power means more than sex, money and image.  It means to know yourself, to commune with nature & her forces, to direct your own consciousness, to listen to yourself, to hold space, to shine your light for the benefit of all.

If any of this sounds compelling to you, I know you'll enjoy Book of Shadows.

WITCHY WEDNESDAY: Making My Own Incense

Over the holiday break I got a wild hair to see about making my own cone incense.  I love burning incense almost daily, and there are lot of gorgeous fancy cone incenses being made by small companies.  I purchased handmade incense from Brothers Supply Shop as an Xmas gift and I also love Blackbird's incense, but I got curious about the freedom of making my own scent combinations.

Could I make a decent version of cone incense at home?  I found this video on White Witch Parlour's YouTube channel and got inspired.

[If you like this video, be sure to watch her other videos, they're all great.]

My first attempt was made with ingredients I already had in my cupboard to make my own teas: elderberries, sassafras, etc.  I also used a small, shallow, stone mortar & pestle I already had.  The results weren't great but they were encouraging.  I found that my mortar & pestle wasn't deep enough to get a good grind, and that I wasn't strong enough yet to pulverize the sticky elderberries. I shaped my incense into a bumpy cone and left it to dry, and it burned alright a few days later. I didn't love the smell but it was alright.

A few days later I was in Marin County to drop off some garlands at The Herban Garden.  I stopped to get my favorite coconut latte at Sol Food and while I was waiting for it, I noticed they had a wood mortar & pestle for sale for $12.  It had a deeper & narrower bowl, so I bought it. Perhaps my all-time most unexpected impulse purchase!

A better mortar & pestle

A better mortar & pestle

On my way back from Fairfax, I decided to stop in to see the new, expanded location of Gathering Thyme, a wonderful herb store in San Rafael, CA.  While I was there I picked up some herbs for a new batch of incense:

  • rose petals
  • vitex
  • frankincense
  • angelica root
  • witch hazel
Rose petals, vitex, frankincense, angelica root, witch hazel

Rose petals, vitex, frankincense, angelica root, witch hazel

I chose them like I choose my essential oils, I just go by smell and vibe. I trust my intuition. I don't really know what I'm doing but I have faith it'll all work out fine. That's my own method, it's not necessarily the best method!

My new mortar & pestle worked much better, but I still don't yet have the strength to really get a good grind going.  The frankincense proved especially tricky, so I only got a bit of it.  But overall my consistency was better than the first batch, as was the scent.

These cones put off more smoke than a stick incense, so next time I make them I'll form the cones to be even skinnier at the bottom.

This homemade incense is definitely not better than incense you can buy, but it is totally personalized and I enjoyed the process of making it. I can see how it could become a pleasurable ritual for setting intentions, or a good tool for visualization and meditation.

Thanks White Witch Parlour for the inspiration!

 

MUSIC MONDAY: Let's Dance

⚡️freedom⚡️magic ⚡️dreaming⚡️invention⚡️wonder⚡️dancing ⚡️inspiration⚡️love⚡️joy⚡️legacy⚡️

Music and art can be a channel and a key that allows us to transcend the mundane, our own daily lives, our beliefs in our own limitations.

But everything we love about an artist exists inside us.

So whatever you loved & feel you will miss about David Bowie, find it inside yourself, grow it, share it, be it.

We can all be heroes.

⚡️️freedom⚡️magic⚡️dreaming⚡️invention⚡️wonder⚡️dancing⚡️inspiration⚡️love⚡️joy⚡️legacy⚡️